You’re not in control of life!
That statement offends most people.
They like to believe that it’s not true and will argue, vigorously, that indeed they are!
But alas, they are not.
Yes – you are in control of your response to life. But No ! You are not in control of what life throws at you!
So best you know where you would like to head and best you choose your responses to life’s challenges well. That’s all you have control over. The rest is all random!